We could chime in with the Boss singing “tougher than the rest”.
But nay, that’s not why we are here.
To sing or to praise ourselves or compare with other people’s shortcomings.

As a community we have many elements that are well known and dear to those of you who know BDSM clubs already. But we also differ somewhat from the vast majority.

To quote a phrase from our intentions when we began:
we aim to create and maintain the best possible settings for BDSM play and togetherness for responsible and playful adults.

Xet was started by a group of people that needed a place to come where playing was indeed first and foremost. A place where open minded people can speak and act openly within our democratic setup.

However, we still crave sort of an oath to secrecy. It’s a must for some people and as such a part of our foundation.

We’re a club of active members and we wish to stay full of active members. We are now 43% female and 57% male members

We are quite strict on accepting new members: you must be aware of your sexuality and your wishes or needs into BDSM. We are not for people that want to “try this out”. There are other places for this. If this is you, it’s OK. Go and see our links – and come back when you are sure this is indeed for you.

But we don’t bite.. well unless that’s your wish of course!

We are very different – as members. Different experiences, different needs and so on. Of course we are.

We hope to stay this way and so: we welcome everyone who’s different

Our castle is situated near Odense and we have members from all over Denmark. We are very open to members from abroad too. Many of us have friends in many places all over the world. Friends that come to visit. And we welcome you all.

We offer places to sleep over – as long as you have no unrealistic fantasy of going to bed real early at night, that is.

Our humble castle is indeed open to our members all year around. On members nights we host the bar etc., but outside of these days members are more or less on their own.
Now, the above may have given you the impression that we are very serious minded people.

Well, yes we are serious. We only DO want members that are indeed into BDSM.

But then again, we are not all that serious minded: when all is said and done, we are one bunch of playful adults too. This is really what we are about.

Let’s PLAY!